Workout Diary: January 8 – January 23, 2025

I wanted to start this series this year where I talk more about the workouts I am doing, the progress I am seeing and going deeper into why I choose my workout split, exercises, all the way down to the rest times between sets.

Quick Back Story on my Fitness Journey

If you’ve been here before, you know that my educational background is in fitness and health promotion, and I worked as a personal trainer for the better part of 3 years, before switching to my current career in marketing.

Prior to being a personal trainer, I had been working out for as long as I can remember. Whether it was going on bike rides while my dad would run, running to stay in shape for soccer season, making up workouts in my basement with the bench and dumbbell set we had, or getting professional coaching as part of my competitive soccer season, I was always challenging my body.

I am so grateful that I feel comfortable in the gym, and that I know how good it can make me feel. That was actually a big reason why I switched my studies from earth and space sciences to fitness and health promotion.

I had a tough couple of years after high school after a traumatic experience in my first week of university, and my body really took on that trauma and tried to find a way to protect me. So I gained over 25 pounds and really felt like I lost that lifelong connection I had with my body and how good it felt to move it in a way that challenged it every day.

So when I reconnected with the gym, I was reminded just how capable the human body is. Not only did it find a way to protect me when I was in a very vulnerable and hurting period of my life, but when I was ready to get back out there again, it was ready to go too.

As a woman, I also went through most of my years thinking that we only workout to look a certain way for men. The mental and emotional toll that took on me always hindered my ability to truly enjoy working out and all the other benefits of exercise. So again, when I decided to get back to the gym after a tough couple of years, my mindset completely shifted.

From that point to present day, I have always preached just how amazing the human body is. This is the only one we have for our whole lives, so why not see what it can do? I will always focus on the potential for change in your body, and will do my best to steer clear of superficial benefits of exercise because I know personally how that can be triggering.

But every now and then, it’s nice to celebrate when the the outside reflects all the work you’ve been putting in at the gym, so you may find a few of those comments sprinkled throughout this blog.

Okay, enough about the back story, let’s get into my workout diary from these first 2 weeks of the new year!

Week 1: Getting back into the routine

I have mentioned in my last blog that I actually started the year off feeling really sick. My friends and I all caught something that had us bedridden for first week of the year so I didn’t really start 2025 as I had hoped, but regardless, I did still get myself to the gym on January 8th.

After about 3 weeks of really inconsistent exercise because of the holidays, this first workout was a tough one. I just wanted to get in there and start moving my body again. If you have been following me for some time, you know that I swear by the Hevy app to track my workouts. So you can see how on January 8th, I kept it really simple. Couple leg pressed, quad extensions, split squats and the treadmill.

I was incredibly sore after this workout, despite only doing a couple of exercises, but it was good to get back to the gym and know that what I was doing was really just starting up an old routine.

My typical workout split is Squats, Chest, Deadlift, Back and then if I want to go to the gym for a fifth day, I’ll mix in a cardio or plyo day. The fifth day is really just to play and try new exercises or see how sweaty I can get.

Despite having very sore legs, I was able to get back to the gym the following morning and do a quick chest day. It was wild how tired I was. I remember getting through the workout (just barely) and on the walk home feeling like my eyelids were made of lead. I got back to my apartment and didn’t even shower. I just went right to bed.

So when I named this workout a sleepy chest day, I really meant sleepy. But again, I was really just trying to get back into my routine and start to build in those habits of getting up when the lights turn on at 5AM.

I had a few days off before getting back into the gym on a Sunday to kick off a week with 5 days of workouts! When you go through my Hevy feed you can see that all the workouts that week were big workouts.

Week 2: Finding my new baseline

Week 2 really was such a fun week at the gym. I got my sister, brother-in-law and one of our friends to join my on the Hevy app so every day I would wake up and check to see what workouts they’d done the night before. This was really motivating and made me want to get out of bed, get to the gym and share my own workout with them.

As mentioned, I start on a Sunday with a deadlift workout. I was not feeling as strong as I was feeling at the end of 2024, but again, this week of workouts was all about finding my new baseline and where I will grow from in 2025.

I always need time to recover after deadlift day, especially when I am getting back into a routine, so I slept in on Monday and got right back into the gym on Tuesday with a big leg day. I hit new records and really just wanted to surpass 10,000 lbs of volume (reps x sets x weight = volume).

My legs were quite sore for about 3 days after this, but in my mind it was worth it because I learned a lot about where my body feels strong, and what areas could be strengthened this year.

The following morning I went in for my first back workout of the year. In early December, I had a small surgery to remove a cyst on my back so I was really taking my time to heal before I did too much back work. So for this back day, my scar had had over a month to heal and it was time to push myself.

Back day used to be my second favourite day of my split. Deadlifts are always first, but back day just felt so good. So to finally be able to test my lat pull down and my seated row again felt amazing. You can see it in the results of the workout that I was clearly having a lot of fun with this workout.

A quick rest day on the following day was needed to make sure I gave my body time to recover before another session at the gym in a week when I was going to the gym to push myself.

That following workout was no exception because it was deadlift again! Definitely starting to feel stronger, but rediscovering the need for good grip strength in order to progress in the deadlift. Grip strength is often overlooked, and why you see a lot of people lift with straps as they increase their weight on the deadlift.

The straps cover the missing grip strength needed to hold a deadlift bar with over 180lbs on it! I am a bit of a purest when it comes to deadlifts, so I have never lifted with straps. I have nothing against them, and if your goal is to continue progressing your deadlifts, then I definitely recommend getting yourself a good pair (I recommend these ones from GymShark, or these ones from Amazon).

What I learned from this deadlift session was that I need to keep working on building up my grip strength, perfecting my technique, improving my mobility, and learning to enjoy the ride. Because I love Deadlifts so much, I often forget that it’s okay to take your time and gradually increase the weight, instead of going for a 1RM (rep max) every workout.

To finish off this week of testing and challenging, I added in a bonus workout. I mainly spent my time on the treadmill watching one of my shows, but then hopped off and messed around with a couple fun exercises to get the heart pumping on a Saturday morning.

This week was fun and I was really enjoying waking up and knowing that I would go to the gym and would discover something new about where I am currently at with my fitness. This is the beauty of the new year is that I feel like these first few weeks are really me finding out where my baseline is for 2025, so that when I look back at the end of the year, I have a clear picture of how far I’ve come.

And to be starting with my deadlifts at 160lbs is pretty darn good! I think I could easily get above 200lbs before the year is over. Maybe even before my birthday in June!

Week 3: Settling in the routine

After a week of getting myself back into the routine of waking up early, then finding my baseline, this 3rd week has been all about settling into that routine and putting into action the mental plan that I have to correct and strengthen my body and my core movements.

I am on my period this week, which means I am feeling a little weaker than usual, but being armed with this knowledge when I go to the gym is really helpful because I am not discouraged if I feel weak. My body is going through a lot already during this week of the month, so its okay if there are fewer records this week.

Looking ahead to weeks 4 – 6

With the first 3 weeks of the year almost complete, and knowing that I’ll be going into a more hormonally energized couple of weeks, I am excited to continue reinforcing these good habits.

Outside of the gym, I am also finding myself being really reasonable with groceries and my expectations around nutrition. I know that I need to be eating certain foods to support my workouts and make sure I have the energy to get through the next workout, but I find I am in a very relaxed headspace with food.

No extremes, no thoughts of restriction or severe deficits. I am weighing myself, but as I mentioned in my first blog of the year, I am really focusing on my body fat percentage this year. My body puts on muscle very easily, so I don’t typically see my weight change very much, but I would like to recomposition my body so there’s more muscle, less fat, and more power to lift heavy weights.

I’d love to know how your first 3 weeks of the year have gone? Have you made progress on your new year’s resolutions? Do you have a favourite app that supporting your health and wellness goals this year? Let me know below!

Starting the New Year Strong: How to Set Goals and Achieve Them in 2025

Happy New Year! 2025 is another chance to tackle your health and wellness goals, to grow, to learn more about your body and how it loves to move, and the food that fuels you.

Unfortunately, my year started off with a weird cold. Although I wanted to kick off the year Jan 1, writing down new goals and setting my intentions for the year, this was stifled by a bad cold or virus that had me stuck in bed for days.

But now that I am feeling better, I am happy to start my 2025 fitness journey tomorrow morning.

With my background in fitness and health, and almost 15 years of setting health and fitness goals, here’s how I plan for the new year.

Setting my long-term and short-term goals

The beginning of the year is filled with so much energy and excitement, so I like to use that energy to set my long-term goals first. What are the big dreams and aspirations I have for myself that are possible over the course of 12 months.

I find it helpful to start with my long-term goals because meaningful change takes time. So if I want to get my bodyfat percentage close to 20% by the end of the year, this is much more realistic on a long-term scale, then trying to reach that goal in the first 3 months of the year.

Although I don’t write down my goals using the S.M.A.R.T. method, I still follow that principle to guide how I set my goals for the year. If you don’t know, S.M.A.R.T. stands for specific, measurable, actionable, realistic, and time-oriented/time-constrained.

Using the example of the bodyfat percentage goal, I would write it down like this:

“In 2025, I would like to achieve a bodyfat percentage of 20% by the end of year. I’ll use my Renpho scale and app to track my progress, and will combine healthy nutrition and exercise practices to help me achieve this goal. I am currently at 29%, which means I will need to lose about 0.75% every month to achieve this by the end of the year.

You can see that I include how I will keep track of this goal, what I will do to actually achieve the goal, and what that goal looks like broken down by month. All of this creates structure and a clear path to achieve my goal, which is very helpful for someone like me who loves a goal and loves structure.

Setting Short-Term Goals

Once I have my long-term goals set, I like to break them down into short-term goals, or milestones. This is a great mental exercise that will help me visualize the smaller steps I will have to take, and the mini-wins I can celebrate on the way to achieving my long-term goals.

The great thing about writing down your long-term goals using the format I mentioned above is that you can dig into the steps mentioned to help you set your goals.

Using the body-fat percentage goal again, a short-term goal or milestone will be to get to the gym 4x/week every week for the first quarter of 2025 (Jan – Mar). Because I am coming at this goal with a lot of historical data, and knowing when I have been at my best physically, I know that going 4x/week consistently has helped me stay on track with my nutrition goals, and helped me develop a more preferable body composition.

Here’s what that would look like written down:

For the first quarter of 2025 (Jan – Mar) I will consistently go to the gym 4x/week, following a structured 12-week program that will be tracked using the Hevy app. I will hold myself accountable by posting my workouts to TikTok and sharing my progress on Pinterest and my website.”

Because this is a smaller goal, that is going to take daily practice, it is important to really emphasize what will make this goal attainable. In my case, keeping track of my workouts in the Hevy app, plus posting my workouts to social media and my website will add layers of accountability to make sure I am getting to the gym and working towards this milestone.

If you want, you can break these goals down even further. It all depends on how often you prefer to receive rewards or feedback as you work towards a goal.

In my case, I like to receive positive feedback or some kind of reward at least once per month. So I will be breaking down this goal one-step further to highlight how I will be rewarding myself every time I finish a month with 4 workouts every week.

I may use a specific training goal as my target for the month, such as increasing my bench press by 10% or getting to 3 unassisted pull-ups by the end of the month. Consistent workouts will help me achieve these smaller goals, but these smaller goals can be achieve in smaller units of time.

It is really all about figuring out your system for setting and tracking goals. Once you have those in place, you’re in a great place to start working towards those long-term goals you have set for the year.

Setting Intentions and Finding Resources

One of the biggest impacts on the success of your year is having clear intentions for the year, or setting yourself with a healthy mindset, and then figuring out what resources will help you stay on track.

Over time, I have learned that having a healthy mindset is crucial to my success. I want to set exciting goals for myself, but I always make to make sure they are rooted in growth, and not self-hatred or trying to change who I am fundamentally.

I used to set goals in my late teens and early twenties that were all about changing who I was fundamentally. I thought who I was wasn’t good enough, or couldn’t be the right version of me to achieve what I wanted to that year.

But over time, I learned that this is a rotten place to come from. Who you are is enough. Your body and mind are made of the genetics of generations before you who survived, innovated, loved, and grew into beautiful humans. We all have the potential, we just have to believe that we have that potential and then run with it.

For example, I learned in my mid-twenties that I am at my best when I have a goal, and when I am learning new things. Listening to an insightful podcast, or taking an interesting online course is really motivating and helps me stay on track in all other areas of my life.

When I can direct that energy towards my goals, I have been able to get out of deep depressions, rediscover the strength of my body, and ultimately inspires others around me to pursue healthy, happy, and balanced lifestyles.

So as you plan for this year, just remember that the potential to be great already exists within you. Start telling yourself this every day, and you’ll be amazed how over time, you really do start to believe it and it will bring you to new places you maybe never thought were possible. And when you need a helping hand, explore resources like podcasts, books, YouTube channels and communities that inspire you to keep growing and learning and pursuing that higher version of yourself.

Get Started

The final step is to just get started. Sometimes the planning phase can be more exciting than the actual doing phase, but you have to get started to know if the goals you’ve set are realistic for you.

Every day is a new day to experience your self-growth and to celebrate those mini-wins. But you have to get started to find out.

Trust that you can do this. Even if you’ve stumbled in the past, you made the choice to get back up again. Honour that and keep going. I believe you can do it because I have pulled myself out of some serious ruts and dark places and have surprised myself with what I am capable of. This is part of the human experience, so stick with it.

Here’s to your best year yet!

An Honest Review of the Google FitBit Versa 4

I have been a long-time user to FitBit and was always really pleased with the services they offered on their more basic bands. In 2019 when I upgraded to the Versa 2, I was told on numerous occasions that it looked like an Apple Watch, but I always found the functionality was superior. Around 6 months ago my FitBit stopped working, so I decided to buy myself the latest version of the Versa watch. This is my honest review of the Google FitBit Versa 4.


The Good

1. Affordable Price

When my original FitBit versa died, I did try to shop around and check out what the other smart watches were up to these days. I looked at the Garmin Vivoactive 5, Apple Watch SE, the Samsung Galaxy Watch 7, and finally, the Pixel Watch 2. Although some of the watches offered more tracking capabilities, or longer battery life, I just kept coming back to the fact that I have been with FitBit for many years now.

With so many years of tracked health data, I felt myself pulled towards another FitBit product because I didn’t want to re-teach a fitness app all of my baseline health metrics. So it ultimately came down to the Pixel Watch 2 or the FitBit Versa 4, and in the end the FitBit Versa 4 won on price.

In fact, out of all the smart watches I was looking at, the FitBit Versa 4 was the most affordable that also offered all of the same tracking that the other watches were offering (HRV, Steps, Calories, Sleep, etc.).

2. Better Band Attachment System

When the FitBit arrived, it was the same colour and fit as my previous FitBit, rose gold with a pink strap. Since Google purchased FitBit, I knew there would be some upgrades to the device and the first one I noticed was the magnetic attachment for the bands.

On my previous FitBit, it was a very finicky, annoying system of delicately maneuvering a tiny pin into a tiny hole. The area would very quickly filled with “gunk” and it was a pain to switch out the bands.

On the FitBit Versa 4, the bands are much easier to attach, with a very satisfying and easy-to-use snap-in system. There is still a space where gunk could collect, but I have been wearing my FitBit for almost half a year and it still clean in there.

Connected to Amazon Alexa

The last thing that I find really helpful with my FitBit Versa 4 is that I can connect it to my Amazon Alexa devices. So I can be wrapping up my day in the living room and quickly say to my watch “turn on the bedroom lights” and then my room is ready for me when I go to bed.

These integrations are great when you have even more devices attached, or if you use your Alexa devices to do things like make grocery lists on the go, play music, or have it answer questions for you. So far I have only used it to turn on the lights, but it’s a nice additional feature to have added to the watch.

HRV, Tap to Pay and Custom Backgrounds

A few other things that I am enjoying are either new to the FitBit versa or were on my previous FitBit but I thin they are worth mentioning here.

  1. The first is HRV, which is a new feature. When I was first using my FitBit versa, I had been doing a lot of research into HRV because of my work as a personal trainer. My sister’s and I even bought our mom the OURA Ring as that was the hot product at the time that was measuring HRV. So as I was doing my research for a new fitness tracker, I was very happy to see the FitBit had introduced HRV tracking on all of their new devices. Now that I am using the app, the tracking leaves much to be desired, but I am still happy to have that data.
  2. Tap to Pay was something you could always do on the FitBit Versa, but I find both of these tools useful. Tap to Pay is especially useful if you are using Google Wallet. However if you have Apply Pay, because this is a Google device, you won’t be able to use your FitBit to make on-to-go apple payments.
  3. I think that customization on any device has a sweet spot, and FitBit is one of those products that has found the sweet spot. With FitBit users designing watch-faces for free and some for a fee, you have so many options to personalize your watch face and get the data that matters to you. My watch face, for example, is a picture of my sister puppy and I can easily tap the watch face to get quick info about my steps, heart rate, Calories and battery life.

Now, unfortunately, this is where I find the my praise for the Google FitBit Versa 4 ends.


The Bad

1. Wake Settings

For some reason, when they redesigned the FitBit Versa 4, they changed the way the watch face wakes, or turns on. On my Versa 2, I just had to flick my wrist and the watch face would wake up, I could check the time or do whatever I need to do, and then flicking my wrist in the other direction would turn it off.

Now, it isn’t that easy and I have no idea why they would change it. Not only that but the button on the side is now an all-purpose button. Except for the one purpose that made the most sense – to turn off the watch. So now when I get the watch to wake, if I want to quickly turn the screen to black I have to just wait or cover the screen without touching the screen.

(You can’t tell, but I am typing this section furiously as this particular feature drives me a little crazy).

This becomes especially annoying at night. Again – on the Versa 2, I would set my watch to sleep mode, which would, understandably, mean that I would have to click on my watch in order to wake the screen and shut off that feature. That is not the case on the Versa 4. Now, when I hit the sleep button, I can’t just hit the button and the screen turns off and it stays off all night. No, I have to wait for the screen to turn off on its own.

And if, by chance, I make too sudden of a movement in the middle of the night, the watch face wakes up and my sleep is disrupted. For a fitness device, this is unacceptable. Sleep is so crucial for our health, and sleeping in complete darkness is so important for a good night sleep. So to have my fitness device be the culprit for waking me up in the middle of the night – it just doesn’t make any sense.

2. Timer

One of the main ways that I use my FitBit is to time exercises or rest times when I am at the gym. Between the 2 FitBit versa’s that I have owned, the set-up of the timer is pretty much the same, but once again they’ve changed the timer just enough that it is now annoying to use.

From what I remember, my FitBit Versa 2 would allow you to choose your time, and then I would either tap the screen or hit one of the action buttons on the side to start the timer. When I was done or if I needed to pause the timer, I would flick the wrist towards myself to wake up the screen, and then hit one of the buttons to pause the timer.

(Pause for deep breaths). On the FitBit versa 4 because they only have 1 action button, everything is touch screen. This is OK, but as with all touch screens they can be fickle and sensitive and calibration can make it very frustrating to use. As mentioned previously, the watch doesn’t wake up with a flick of the wrist, so when I am checking to see how much longer I need to hold a plank, I can’t just flick my wrist to check.

No, now I have to hit the action button, which sometimes just wakes up to the watch face and not the timer app, go to the timer app and make sure not to touch the screen once I get there for risk of stopping or reseting the timer.

It is something I have gotten used to, but I just wish they hadn’t changed that feature. It is a very simple and basic app, so just leave it alone and focus on adding more apps and features.

Speaking of apps…

3. Very Limited Apps

I know from friends who have apple watches that their apple watch is truly an extension of their phone. As an iPhone user (formerly Google Pixel), I do wish there were more integrations between FitBit and Apple, but I can understand why both haven’t innovated in this direction.

With that said, the FitBit app marketplace is pretty rough. From what I remember, there used to be an open marketplace for people to build apps for FitBit. Most folks were adding games, or custom timers, or another calendar app, which are all useless to me.

I have a couple different fitness apps like the Hevy App for tracking workouts, Renpho for body composition, HeadSpace and Calm for mindfulness, and SoundCloud for music. None of these apps are available on my FitBit to quickly check stats, start a meditation, or change the live set I am listening to on SoundCloud. Renpho does have an app-to-app integration with FitBit, but there isn’t anything I can add to my watch.

Final Thoughts

As with all fitness trackers, none of them are perfect. The battery life is good on this watch, but there’s definitely better. The calories are likely very over or under estimated, and I somehow do about 200 steps every night in my sleep. I don’t expect perfection from a device that sits on my skin and trusts an accelerometer to know if I am walking or not, but at this point in the game of smart watches, I just wish the FitBit Versa 4 was better.

When Google acquired FitBit, I really hoped the FitBit would get a technical upgrade that is desperately needed. However, now that I have a post-google-acquisition device, it seems like Google bought FitBit for their technical expertise so that they can improve their line of Pixel watches and send FitBit devices to the graveyard.

This is a shame for all FitBit users out there as these devices were the pioneers of the fitness tracker space and it would be great to see them last and continue to push what fitness trackers can do to improve the lives and wellbeing of their users.

For now, I will continue to use my Google FitBit Versa 4, but in the back of my mind I know I am just waiting to save up enough for an upgrade. The watch does what I need it to do, but there are enough settings that I rely on every day with this watch that just don’t cut it for me anymore.

What are your thoughts on the FitBit Versa 4 or any of their fitness trackers? Are you using something else that you’re happy with? Let me know in the comments section below!

As a long-time FitBit user, I’ve always been happy with the functionality and simplicity of their fitness trackers. Back in 2019, I upgraded to the FitBit Versa 2, and while many people told me it looked like an Apple Watch, I personally found the Versa’s features superior for my fitness needs.

What do you think of the FitBit Versa 4? Are you using a different fitness tracker that you love? Let me know in the comments below!

Riley’s Recommendations: Athleta’s Single’s Day Sale Top Picks

Holiday shopping season is upon us, ladies! Over the next couple of weeks I will be sharing my top picks from sportswear, athleisure and fitness brands to help you get the perfect gifts for the fitness enthusiast in your life, or, to get yourself a little something for the holidays. Here are my top picks for Athleta’s single’s day sale where you can save 25% on all orders and $50 on all orders $200+.

Breathe Longline Piping Bra A-C

Downtown Puffer Parka – $216.75

Forever Fleece High Rise Piping Jogger – $74.25

Forever Fleece 1/2 Zip High Hip Piping Sweatshirt – $81.75

Salutation Crop Jacket – $81.75

Salutation Stash 7/8 Bodysuit – $96.75

All About Small Cosmetic Pouch – $18.75

Easy Fleece Crew Sweatshirt – $66.75

Presence Sweatshirt – $66.75

Interval Mock Neck Top – $56.25

Revive Modular Crossbody Bag – $74.25

Easy Fleece 1/2 Zip Hoodie – $74.25

All About Shearling Large Cosmetic Pouch – $33.75

Alight Jacket – $134.25

Salutation Jacket – $69.97

Cloud Fleece Jacket – $104.25

Updated Training Goals and Workout Plan

We are less than 3 months from a new year and I am feeling really motivated to achieve new goals in the gym. If you’ve been following the blog, you know I am on a glow up journey; just trying to do more everyday that makes me feel confident and successful everyday. So my goals and training plan have been updated for the final 3 months of the year and I am excited to share them with you.

The over-arching goal for the plan is to increase strength. If you’ve haven’t read my articles on why rest matters and why your reps and sets matter, go check them out as they’ll help give the “why” behind a lot of the training decisions I am making for this phase of my training.

As I said, I want to increase strength. More specifically, I am looking to hit my old PRs from when I was a full-time trainer. This means I would like to bench press 135lbs (1 plate), deadlift 215lbs (2 plates), do 10 chin ups, and then for my squat I have a non-strength-related goal.

Squatting is my weakest lift in terms of technique. Due to the way my femur (big thigh bone) sits in my pelvis, I find it difficult and sometimes painful to get into a deep squat.

However, I don’t want that to limit what I do in the gym. Squatting is an essential movement in daily life, and technically it is an important one to master given the benefits it provides in other areas of the body like the core, ankles and knees.

So for squats, I am going to work on strengthening each component of the squat to prepare myself for a proper, barbell squat routine in the new year.

This means strengthening my quads and hamstrings, improving my ankle and hip mobility, and improving my core strength. I’ll also (of course) be squatting to make sure I am working on building up that movement pattern, but starting with a very low weight to make sure I perfect the technique before lifting heavy.

Here’s a full breakdown of the program I’ll be following. I also track all of my workouts on the Hevy app, so if you’d like to follow along there, you can! I like the app because it connects to my Apple health so I feel like my calories on Apple Health are a little more representative of my exercise.

Program Breakdown

Here is a day-by-day program breakdown. Please keep in mind that the day of the week sometimes changes based on my access to the gym (if I am home or not), and if I get enough sleep the night before.

  • Day 1 (typically Monday): Squat and Core
  • Day 2 (typically Tuesday): Chest and rowing
  • Day 3 (typically Thursday): Deadlifts
  • Day 4 (typically Friday): Back, shoulders and abs
  • Optional Day: Mobility, testing new exercises and cardio

As you can see, I try to take a break between the first 2 days and the second two days. This comes from an old schedule when I was a PT and had my longest day at work from 6AM – 8PM, so I figured I could take a break.

It is also important to note that I walk to and from the gym (~2,500 steps), try to get out for a lunch-time walk (~2,500 steps) and also have at least 1 dog walk every week day (~3,500 steps), sometimes more if I am dog-sitting as well. So I am active throughout the day, even on my rest days.

Now, of course, food is also going to be important to help me achieve my goals. Everyone’s body is going to need different things to fuel their success in the gym, so I won’t breakdown exactly what I am eating, but the main thing you should know is that I will be making sure I have some form of protein at every meal, I am working more vegetables into my diet, and drinking at least 3L of water per day. I am also looking to reduce my alcohol intake between now and Christmas, as this impacts my training progress and it will help me manage my mental health as the days get shorter, darker and colder here in Montreal.

Alright, let’s break down each day so you can understand the “why” behind the exercise choices and how that will help me achieve my training goals.

Day 1: Squat and Core

In the past I liked to start the week with legs, and specifically squats because in my early 20’s, squats were the exercise that young women needed to be doing. I put that pressure on myself for somewhat superficial reasons, but it also turned out to be a great way to start my week. So for this program, I am doing the same but with some modifications.

As I mentioned before, my squat workout is about building up the movement patterns, mobility and stability to be able to do a technically sound squat in 2025.

I have tried numerous times over the past few years to get back into a regular squat routine, but everytime I start, my quads cramp up or I just feel like I am cutting corners for the sake of doing barbell squats.

So I am removing ego from my plan and focusing on the fundamentals. This includes:

Practicing Good Technique:

This means squatting at least once a week, using aids like resistance bands to train my abductors and glutes to engage as I drop down into a squat, and a low box to help me squat to the depth I want. I also always make sure to squat with a mirror to my side, so that I can check where my shoulders and knees are positioned over feet.

Strengthening the Concentric Contraction

This is a fancy way for me to say that I am going to strengthen my ability to go from a deep squat into the standing position. To simulate this and allow me to build up that strength, I am using the `leg press machine.

Training Unilaterally

Again, this is just a fancy way of saying that I will be training my left and right leg individually as much as possible. One of the symptoms of my weird femur-pelvis set-up is that I favour one side when I squat. It is very noticeable that when I squat, my weight shifts to my right leg since this is the stronger leg.

As part of this period of my training, I will be doing things like split squats, Bulgarian split squats, and step ups to strengthen the left side and keep the right side strong as well. This looks like 12 reps on the left leg, while I do maybe, 8 or 10 on the right.

Strengthening my Core

Strengthening my core is probably the most important part of preparing for a barbell squat routine. The core is the all of the muscles that make up the area between the bottom of your rib cage, and the bottom of your pelvis. All of the abs, the muscles in your back, your diaphragm and your pelvic floor play and important role in maintaining posture and protecting your lower lumbar spine.

The main core exercises will be the deadbug, assisted by an exercise ball to make sure I am getting the most from the exercise, and a plank on the exercise ball. This adds an element of instability, which forces more of the core to engage, instead of doing a regular plank.

What I am trying to do with these two exercises in build resilience in my core so that as I squat down, I don’t let my belly push out, and my lower back arch. When you look at the biomechanics of this classic chest out, back arch pose, you see that the risk of shifting the weight of the bar onto the tiny muscles between your vertebrae is incredibly high.

In a squat I want my large muscles, like my lats, my glutes, quads and hamstring to bear the load of the bar – not a tiny muscle that is just trying to keep my spine aligned.

The Workout

When you put all of these elements together, you get a pretty simple workout that ends up being the shortest workout of the week for me. Here’s the workout breakdown:

SetSet SchemeExerciseWeightRest
ASupersetLeg PressHeavy0s
ASupersetBanded, slow, side shufflesMedium to heavy resistance90s
BSupersetUnilateral exercise (step ups, lunges, split squats, etc.)Light0s
BSupersetBox SquatsBodyweight – light90s
CSupersetDeadbugBodyweight0s
CSupersetPlank on the ballBodyweight45s

Day 2: Chest & Rowing

Day 2 is a really fun day in this routine. I have always rebelled against the idea that women have weaker upper bodies and we can’t build up strength in our chest the same way as men. So I love training bench press because I feel really powerful.

However, it cannot be ignored that I now sit at a desk all day so my chest is lightly activated all day long. So in order to keep my upper body balanced, I include back exercises and work on my rowing goals on chest day so that I balance the chest workout with some back work.

Not only in rowing excellent for working the back and balancing out my chest workout, it is also an excellent form of cardio exercise. There’s a lot I can do with a rowing machine that will keep my workouts varied, including distance goals, split goals, intervals, straight rows, and seeing how far I can go in a set amount of time.

The rowing erg is also a fabulous, full-body cardio machine. Generating power from the legs, requiring core strength to protect your back, and upper body strength to finish the movement.

I can remember when I was going to school on the western coast of Canada where the national rowing team trained and seeing the rowers as gods in the gym. From a personal trainer/anatomy fan perspective, a rower’s body is a work of art. I would love to build even 50% of the figure and strength that those rowers had.

Without further ado, here is my workout program for chest and rowing day. Keep in mind that the rowing workout varies week-to-week, depending on what I feel like doing.

SetSet SchemeExerciseWeightRest
ASupersetBarbell Bench PressHeavy0s
ASupersetSingle arm dumbbell rowHeavy2mins
BSupersetIncline Chest FlyMedium0s
BSupersetDumbbell Overhead Tricep extensionMedium90s
CVariesRowing MachineVariesVaries

I wrote a blog about how to modify exercises that would be a helpful follow-up article to this one. Sometimes equipment isn’t available or you have more or less time, so it is good to know how you can modify exercises to fit you training experience, equipment available, and time available.

Day 3: Deadlift Day (!!)

We have officially arrived at my favourite day of the week: deadlift day. The day I learned how to properly deadlift was a life-changing moment for me. Remember when I said that I loved how doing a bench press made me feel powerful? Well the deadlift also gives me that same feeling – but so much more.

I have talked about technique earlier in this blog, and that’s because having excellent technique is really important to me. If you are going to do a compound lift (squat, deadlift, bench press, pull up), you might as well do it right. When you do these lifts properly, you reap all of the rewards, which range from better bone health, better mobility, strength (obviously), and a balanced body composition. So taking the time learn proper technique is very important.

Deadlifts are one of the most technically difficult lifts. To start, the hip hinge is something that modern society has lost. If you don’t know how to properly do a hip hinge – don’t worry. The first time I attempted a deadlift, I loaded up 115lbs on the bar, bent over and lifted. The following days I experienced the worst back pain I have ever experienced because I didn’t know how to properly hip hinge.

Not only do you need to know how to do a proper hip hinge, but have general kinaesthetic awareness is huge and will help you feel that you are engaging all the rights muscles at the right time throughout the movement.

This may be why I am so adamant about teaching the hip hinge, and helping people discover the power of a great deadlift. I was fortunate enough to be taught by the kinesiologists I was working with as part of my co-op placement in school, but I do everything I can to share that knowledge with anyone who is interested in learning how to deadlift.

But I digress. Deadlift is just a great day because I am really working to push myself on deadlift day, so the weights are heavy and my confidence gets a huge boost on deadlift day.

Before I bore you with anymore fangirling over the deadlift, here is the workout breakdown.

SetSet SchemeExerciseWeightRest
AStraightDeadliftHeavy2mins – 3.5mins
BStraightHip ThrustsHeavy2mins
CSupersetDeadhang Bodyweight0s
CSupersetSlow Glute kickbacksBodyweight45s
DVariesStep MachineVariesVaries

Obviously, I start with deadlifting to make sure that all of the resources available are used towards pushing the weight higher and higher during the workout. I typically do about 5-6 sets, and each set I go up in weight, trying to hit my peak by the 4th or 5th set. If I feel really good about the peak weight, then I’ll push for a 6th set.

I follow up deadlift with a hip thrust to really target the glutes and reinforce the core strength that is required to keep the core engaged during a deadlift. Practicing a powerful hip thrust is also a great way to train the final, finishing movement of the deadlift.

This gets followed up by a deadhang and some extra exercise for my glutes and/or hamstrings. Deadhangs are a great exercise to increase grip strength. Grip strength is what will help you continue to lift a barbell off the ground without the use of straps (no hate to straps, I just don’t use them).

Grip strength has also been shown to be a great indicator of overall health, so it is an important thing to train.

The glute kickbacks are what I usually do, but I have also done things like hamstring curls, bulgarian split squats, or step tap-ups. The final exercise is really there to just get every last bit out of my posterior chain (glutes and hamstrings), while strengthening the muscles that are used in a deadlift.

I finish with stairmaster primarily because this is what I have always done on deadlift day. It may seem punishing to jump on the stairmaster after I have just asked my legs to lift a lot of weight for many reps and sets, but for me, I like to incorporate things into my workout that remind me that my body is adaptable and stronger than I even know.

It is important to test the body, see what it can do for you, and celebrate those moments as often as possible. So that’s why I structure my deadlift days the way I do – it is all about working with the confidence and momentum of the heavy deadlift and using that to carry me through the rest of the workout.

Day 4: Back, shoulders, and abs

We have arrived at the final scheduled day of the workout. I used to hype myself and my clients up for back day by saying we were building our wings. We are creating a beautiful butterfly, with a strong, powerful back that helped frame a smaller waist (I am not completely opposed to aesthetic goals).

I do still think this way, and so that’s why I love putting back day with shoulders and abs on Friday. I typically go out on weekends, and I love feeling like I have a snatched waist, and a nicely defined upper body when I put on my going out outfits.

The primary movement you want to strengthen when you are working your back is a variation of the pull up. You can do a military style pull up, with your palms facing away from you on the bar, or you can train the other variations first and work your way up to the military style pull-up.

From experience, the chin-up is the easiest to train, followed by neutral grip where your palms face inwards, followed by a wide grip pull-up, and finally a military style pull-up. These all involve varying degrees of help from different muscle groups and some are easier to “cheat” than others.

In order to do a pull-up (or any of its variations), you’ll have to train the different elements of a pull-up. This means building a strong back with exercises like face pulls, lat pulls down, and rowing exercises. Your grip strength and core strength will also play an important role here, and finally you’ll require some strength in your biceps and triceps.

The payoff is incredible though. I haven’t been able to do full chin-ups for many years, but I still remember the feeling of pulling myself up to the bar more than once. Again, as a woman, who is regularly told that we can’t or we’re too weak, I love an opportunity to prove that we actually can.

Here is my back, shoulders and abs workout.

SetSet SchemeExerciseWeightRest
AStraightChin-upsBodyweight90s – 2mins
BSupersetLat Pulls DownsHeavy0s
BSupersetFace PullsMedium90s
CSupersetSeated RowMedium0s
CSupersetLateral RaiseMedium90s
DSupersetOverhead PressMedium0s
DSupersetDumbbell Bicep CurlMedium60s
ECircuitSingle Leg Crunch with weightMedium0s
ECircuitSide plank twist with weightLight to medium0s
ECircuitSwiss ball crunchesBodyweight45s

I find back exercises don’t take as long to complete, and the way I structure my workouts with supersets and circuits allows me to fit in a few more exercises on Friday than my other days.

I also like to include some form of cardio finished on my upper body days to help send me off into the weekend feeling like I gave it everything I had that week and I am ready for some rest and relaxation with friends. This varies so much that I haven’t included in the workout above, but I encourage you to do that same if you know you aren’t always able to get to the gym on weekends.

Optional Day: Mobility, testing new exercises, and cardio

I don’t always have the time on the weekend for this optional day, but when I do, I like to spend the 5th day testing out new exercises, working on my mobility and doing a bit of low and slow cardio.

I see so much on tiktok and instagram about different mobility exercises that I always felt were held behind some secret “paywall” and that physiotherapists were the only ones who knew how to prescribe these.

But this is not the case anymore. Because I know my body and I can feel where those imbalances are and the areas that need improvement to help improve my lifts throughout the week, I know what exercises are helpful and which ones aren’t. This is something that takes time to learn, but if you’re looking for a good place to start, shoulder and hip mobility are often areas that can be improved on most desk-bound workers.

Some low and slow cardio is also nice to include because it acts as active rest, which is a good habit to adopt. Although true rest, like sleep and decreasing your overall activity level is good for recovery, active rest is also a great way to help circulate the waste products that “get stuck” in the muscles, and the recovery resources that need to be delivered to the muscles.

This is really just a day to play. It shouldn’t add stress to your weekend to include an optional gym day. It will help cement the good habits you are building, it is a great way to pass the time on weekends, and depending on what you do, it can serve as a great way to prepare your body for the next week of workouts.

So there you have it! My complete workout routine that is going to carry me through to the end of the year. This workout has been designed to make going to the gym exciting, giving every week a chance to be a week where I achieve new personal records (PRs). The next few months are a common time to slow down and feel dragged down by the colder temperatures and darker days, but I am actively choosing to create a routine that will support more joy, more confidence, and will also help pass the time in a productive way.

Healthy Glow-Up Holiday Wish List

This week was marked as the first official week of holiday shopping week as my sister’s sent the annual text to the sister group chat to let us know that our Secret Santa had been organized. This means gathering up all of the links for items I’ve been keeping my eye on and adding them to my holiday wish list.

One common theme from the last year has been a deep focus on investing in myself. More specifically, investing in things and building habits that make me feel pampered and confident. So I’ve creating a wish-list that covers all areas of a healthy lifestyle and am going to share those items with you below to inspire you to create your own wish list, or to help you shop for a loved one on their own glow-up journey.

Exercise, fitness, in-the-gym essentials

The holiday season is the perfect time to stock up on at least one new gym fit, maybe update your gym bag, and finally refresh your trainers and socks. I have chosen the following items because my gym vibe needs an upgrade and injection of energy.

GymShark Oversized T-Shirt

Gymshark oversized shirt in purple

I noticed this morning when I was at the gym that I don’t have a lot of shirts that I can throw on when I am feeling bloated and just want to cover up in a cute, functional shirt. So an oversized T in a training fabric is the perfect solution. Right now they only have a few colours, but I imagine as we get closer to their family and friends sale and Black Friday and cyber Monday, we’ll see a restock of more colours.

GymShark Block Oversized T-Shirt (more colour options)

If you are looking for more colour options and are okay with a more obvious logo placement, then this is an alternative that I have added to my list. I have a feeling I am going to love the oversized T, so it will be nice to have a back-up when the other one is in the wash.

GymShark Vital Seamless 2.0

For the days when I just want to train in a good, breathable, athletic t-shirt, I can imagine this being my new go-to. I currently own a selection of black training shirts, but one has my name on it from my personal trainer influencer days, and one is just getting old and thin. The black training shirt needs a refresh and this is perfectly basic enough to fit my needs. This does come in a couple of colours, and again, with the upcoming holiday sales, I imagine they’ll be restocking with more colours as they approach their big Black Friday sale.

Gymshark Crew Socks 5pk

I have included this 5 pack of socks in every single article I have written on this website that included mention of training socks. And the crazy thing is, I still haven’t gotten a fresh pack, so I am hoping Santa pulls through and gets me a fresh pack, maybe 2 packs so I can the laundry monster the sock tax (you know what I am talking about).

Gym stocking stuffers

If you are looking for a few smaller items that will fit your work or friend group’s $25 limit, here are the smaller, stocking stuffer items I am asking for this holiday season.

  • Shoe deodorizer balls: whenver I tuck my gym bag away for a few days and leave my shoes in, I find the cupboard smells like stinky feet. So I’m asking for some shoe deodorizers so that my shoes and feet stay fresh.
  • Gymbag toiletry bag: this can really be any bag, but I would like to start using the sauna and showering at the gym, so I’ll need a cute toiletry bag that will stay in my gymbag at all times. This one comes with room for a couple basic make-up brushes, and room for bottles like shampoo bottles or fash wash.
  • New no-slip hair elastics: this is like your mom buying you new socks and underwear every holiday season. I never think to buy these, so I find they are an easy one to add to the holiday wish list. I like the coiled ones.
  • Thick Booty Bands: these are another favourite that I have mentioned a few times on my blog. The gym I go to has their own set, but I find they never have the medium band, and sometimes I just want a light band for mobility work. So I am asking for my own set so I can do workouts at home, or bring my lighter bands to the gym.

Moonshot Gift

This next item will appear in each category and is that one gift that you know is definitely out of everyone’s price-range, but could be an option if all of your friends or family pooled their money to get you a group gift.

For me, it’s the Bang & Olufsen earbuds.

Coming in at a whopping $630 CAD, these ear buds are a design marvel, built by one of the best sound product designers in the world. After about 4 months of struggling with my broken samsung buds (never ever buying those again), and making due with a pretty good, inexpensive pair, I would love to settle into the crisp sound quality of a pair of Bang & Olufsen earbuds.

The “abs are built in the kitchen” gifts

The next selection of gifts are here to inspire me to cook more of the food I love, explore new healthy recipes, and finally be able to try all of those darned, trending air fryer recipes! Because, after all, “abs are built in the kitchen” so if you want to have a complete healthy glow-up you’ll need the right kitchen equipment to be successful.

Immersion Blender

I get really tired of roasting and stir frying veggies all the time. And although I have recently discovered my love for pickling veggies, I also love soup. However, all I have in terms of blenders is a small, nutribullet blender from 4 years that would take ages to blend up the pots of soup I want to make.

The immersion blender is the gateway appliance to my soup dreams, and I think this is a pretty affordable one, by a reputable brand so you can trust it will blend efficiently and won’t burn out on a chunky butternut squash soup.

7.3 Qt Dutch Oven

You know a great place to make a soup? A dutch oven. That’s right, I have added a dutch oven to my holiday wish list because there are so many fabulous recipes that require a dutch oven. From healthy soups, to stews, to making my own homemade sourdough, This is one of those things that I need and will have to make room in my kitchen to fit it. Of course Le Creuset is the gold standard for dutch ovens, but I am asking for the Amazon Basics version on my regular wish-list.

Maple Butchers Block and Butcher’s Block Care Kit

I have been cutting on the same 2, crappy plastic cutting boards I got from Dollarama when I first moved to Montreal and I am very concerned about the micro-plastic build-up. So this holiday season, I am asking for a good quality butcher’s block so I can kiss micro-plastics good-bye and welcome a healthier, sturdier and more functional cutting board into my life. I’m going for an affordable Maple butcher’s block from a Canadian small business that sells through Amazon.

Additionally, to maintain the quality of the butcher’s block, I have asked for the care kit. This is the one I am asking for, which includes all of the tools and a nifty diagram to show you the steps to clean the board.

Kitchen Stocking Stuffers

Most kitchen items can’t be fit into a stocking, but I have included the kitchen items that are on my wish-list to give you an idea of what is possible under $25 that may not directly contribute to healthy recipes, but will at least make your kitchen look cute while you cook.

  • Seasonal tea towels: I love rotating my tea towels to suit the season and I don’t have fall tea towels at the moment. I thought these ones were quite cute, but there are loads of options on Amazon.
  • Faucet Splash Guard: I find the area around my faucet always builds up with standing water and soaps stains, so I’d love to clean up that area with a silicon mat that will help redirect excess water back into the sink and keep that area clean and sanitary.
  • 6-in-1 Slicer: I know we’ve all seen the “sometimes you just need a whole cucumber videos” but also have seen the horror videos of people using a mandolin. Although a fabulous kitchen tool, I would love to have something that is more multi-functional (but still has the slicer to handle a whole cucumber!). This one is on sale for $24, so it comes in right under budget on sale, but I’d keep an eye on it in case it jumps back up to $44.

Moonshot Gift

There are so many beautiful kitchen gadgets that a girl can own that will make cooking a real joy, but nothing is more suited to the ultimate healthy, gym girlie than a vitamix blender. I was fortunate enough to grow up with one and there really isn’t anything that compares with the quality of blending that a vitamix blender offers. It can make soups, sauces, and of course – protein shakes and green smoothies of your dreams.

Coming in at a crazy $729 CAD, if I got this gift I would have to be using it everyday to make sure my friends and loved ones knew how grateful I am that they pooled their money together to get this for me.

Honourable mention to the Kitchenaid Evergreen stand mixer that stole the hearts of countertop appliance girlies across the world. I would make the most beautiful sourdough bread, fresh pasta, and savory pastries in that beautiful work of art.

Self Care Queen Essentials

A crucial part of the glow-up process is remembering to slow down and take time to pamper yourself. As Tan France teaches us in every season of Queer Eye, taking care of yourself sends a message to yourself that you care, and that ends up radiating outwards. The final category of my holiday wish list includes the remaining items on my list that are just there to make my rest days and healthy, self-care habits a little more complete.

A Super Soft, Bath Robe

It has taken me far too long to graduate from the slinky, silk robe I bought in my early 20’s from Victoria Secret to a more practical, sensible, plush robe for my 30’s. The beauty with this item is that it could technically fit in on my stock-stuffer list, as it only cost $26 CAD on Amazon right now. So it is a steal for something that is going to add so much joy and comfort to your self-care routine.

Light Therapy Mask

I know the jury is still out on whether or not these masks really make a difference, but I have heard a lot of women say that consistent use has helped with hyperpigmentation and acne, which are two things I struggle with. I looked across Amazon for one that was affordable and had a lot of good reviews, and this one matched all the criteria so it’s the one I have added to my wish-list.

Self-Care Stocking Stuffers

You could really go crazy here as a lot of gimicky stuff fits into the sub-$25 budget here. So here are a few things that I am actually looking for this holiday season, as well as a few things I have already purchased that make a big difference in my self-care routine.

  • Ice Roller: I have the gua sha and the jade rollers, but I recently cam across a tiktoker who swore by the ice roller as the best way to wake up the skin and de-puff at the beginning of the day. I wake up feeling really puffy most days, especially around my time of the month, and I do find that this does a great job of instantly de-puffing and waking me up.
  • Silicone Wrinkle Patches: This one might be gimicky, but I do not have the budget for botox so silicone patches it is! They fit nicely in the stock-stuffer budget as well and are an alternative to the classic face masks we all get in our stockings during the holidays.
  • Star pimple patches: I love that gen Z walk around with stars on their faces like they are an accessory. My high school and early 20’s were spent layering cheap concealer over my breakouts and these kids are out here owning those breakouts. So I will also be choosing to rock the star pimple patches in 2025. This pack gives you 240 so you’re covered for a few hormonal breakouts.
  • Bondi Sands Tanning Mousse: this one is a little more than $25, but I love a good fake tan to keep me glowing through the winter months.

Moonshot Gift

For the final moonshot gift of the list, I think I saved the best for last. After a successful week of hitting the gym, eating beautiful meals, sticking to your healthy routines, it is time to go out on the town with friends. What makes a night out on the town that much better, especially when you are feeling confident in mind and body?

The Dyson Airwrap. That’s right – a perfect blow-out just gives your hair the same bounciness you feel in your soul. I am romanticizing this, but I would truly love a Dyson Airwrap so I can stop fiddling with straighteners, and curling wands, and desperately trying to figure out pin-curls.

Is she $800 CAD? Yes. Is she also being sold in a limited edition pinky, red tone? Also yes, which just makes it all the more beautiful to me. But would it be worth it for the extra boost of confidence I would get from having the perfect blow-out? Ab-so-fricken-lutely.

So there you have it! These are all of the items that I have on my wish list this year that I believe will help catapulte me into 2025 in the best position to achieve my glow-up goals. The moonshot gifts are not on my list, but if anyone I know is reading this, now you know ;)

What is Gym Etiquette?

So you’re just starting your gym journey and hear someone mention gym etiquette. The gym is a pretty hard core, intense place, so gym etiquette feels like an oxymoron. But in fact, gym etiquette should be lesson #1 before you start your first workout. In this blog, I’ve got you! Here are the gym etiquette principles you need to know before starting your gym journey.

Put your weights back where you found them

This first one should be a no-brainer but alas, I still see people leaving their weights wherever they were just using them. Some people will even put the weights “away” but they are no where near where they should be.

This is an important rule and helps with the flow of everyone’s workout. If I am going to a squat rack, it should be convenient and quick for me to load up the bar with the weights available on the rack.

However if there are only 25’s and 1 45lbs plate there, then I have to wander around the whole gym just to balance the bar.

It’s a small thing and, I would say, the easiest to do.

Be reasonable with your time on one machine or with one piece of equipment

As a girl who times her rests based on my training goals, sometimes resting for up to 5 minutes between sets, I know that some workouts just require more time with a machine.

However, be reasonable. If there are only 2 squat racks, and your whole 90 minutes workout is spent there, then please, I beg you, modify your workout.

Let’s take the example where I take 5 minute breaks. When I do that, the maximum number of sets I am doing is 6, and I am likely only doing 2-3 reps. The exercise should take less than 30s, and the rest is 5 minutes. Put that together and you get 32.5 minutes.

Even in the case of German volume training where you do 8 sets of 8 reps, if you’re training for volume, you r rest should only be maximum 2 minutes. 2.5 x 8 = 20 minutes.

So what’re you doing on the squat rack for 90 minutes???

Just be reasonable.

Clean the equipment after use

After COVID-19 you’d think people would be better at this, but turns out there are still some hold outs.

I am a firm believer in the “eat dirt” theory when you’re a kid yo help build your immune system, but at the gym I really need you to wipe down your equipment after you use it.

Anything that you touch for more than a few seconds should get a wipe down. It protects all of us from getting sick so we never have to miss a leg day. I also like to use hand sanitizer every now and then between exercises, just as an added measure to make sure I am not spreading any germs.

Be Mindful of Personal Space

During the busy times of day, the gym can get really crowded. As a newbie or an long-time gym goer, it is important to be mindful of personal space at the gym.

If someone has clearly set up a a small area to complete a circuit, do your best not to crowd them or cross their path so they can complete their exercises in peace and you don’t disrupt their workout flow.

From my time as a personal trainer working in a gym that ran 30 minute sessions in a small, boutique-style gym, with 4 others trainers and their clients, I had to find clever ways to get a whole selection of exercises done in a small space.

Whenever my colleagues would cross our path, or bring their clients too close to mine, it would intimidate my clients and impact their overall experience at the gym. Please keep in mind that not everyone feels confident at the gym, so give them their space so they feel like they are allowed to take up space and that they belong.

Avoid Smashing Down Weights or Unnecessary Noise

The gym can be a noisy place. From the subtle grunts and heavy breathing of weight lifters, so that humming noise that always radiates from the cardio section, it is normal to have some noise at the gym.

However, if you are being gratuitous with the noises you make, the point where it is distracting or intimidating, you’re really not being a team-player at the gym.

Again, this is a small thing that can easily be corrected to make everyone’s experience at the gym more pleasant. I am someone who makes sure I am breathing properly at the gym, so people can hear me exhale. However I am not Maria Sharapova on the squat rack. Excessive grunting and moaning distracting and best left for the tennis court.

Proper gym etiquette isn’t about limiting your experience at the gym, it is about enhancing your and everyone else’s at the gym. The gym can be an intimidating place, and can very quickly get disorganized and confusing for newcomers. So make sure you clean up after yourself, be mindful of personal space and time with equipment, and try to be reasonable with the extra noises at the gym.

My Fall Morning Routine: Setting Myself Up for Success to Finish the Year Strong

Its the beginning of September, which means it is basically the second “new years”. September has always been a great time to reset and refocus on my goals so that I can finish the year strong. The best way to set myself up for success? Update my fall morning routine. In this blog I’ll go through the habits that make up my fall routine.

Wake up with Sunrise Alarm Clock

In Canada, we are already seeing the days shorten as we get closer to the fall equinox. This means that my normal wake-up time of 5:00 AM is much darker than it was 2 months ago.

To help my body wake up in the most natural way possible, I use a sunrise alarm clock. I have been using this since the pandemic and found it made such a difference in my morning routine.

Waking up and having to physically turn on a light, only for that light to temporarily blind me and ultimately annoy me was just not a reliable way to wake up. When I switched to the sunrise alarm clock, it meant my body had more time to naturally wake up as my room would gradually get brighter.

Most days I actually wake up before the sound of my alarm goes off because the sunrise alarm clock works so well. You can also program most smart light-bulbs to do this as well if you already have those set-up in your bedroom.

Wake Up the Rest of the Senses

Once I’ve woken up, I like to head straight to the bathroom to check a couple of tasks off of my morning routine to-do list.

I’ll immediately splash water on my face to get the rest of the sleep off of my eyes, bring more blood to my face, and generally wake up the senses. From there, I like to brush my teeth. So many of the habit-forming books that I’ve read and podcasts I’ve listened to talk about how the simple act of brushing your teeth can be a hack that leads to other habit loops starting.

Once my teeth have been brushed, I’ll do a quick morning skin-care routine. In the fall, the air gets a lot cooler and it starts to dry out so I start to use my heavy-duty moisturizing combos. These are the products I am currently using in the order that I use them:

  • Cleanse: Grace & Stella cleansing balm to remove any build up of debris and leftover products from my time sleeping. It’s super affordable and uses simple ingredients that don’t irritate the skin and really work.
  • Tone: Tir Tir milk toner as my initial moisturizing base. There’s been a lot of hype around this brand as well as milk toners, so I figured I’d give this a go. Within just 2 weeks of using it I am already noticing my skin looks more even and I am not breaking out the same way I usually do before my periodl.
  • Moisturize: Nivea Q10 Power anti-fragrance daily moisturizer for sensitive skin is a great option for anyone who is sensitive to the highly fragranced options that are out there. I also saw that Nivea’s moisturizers were dupes for La Mer and Charlotte Tilburry’s magic cream and I have been thoroughly impressed.

Sometimes I’ll add a little brow gel if I feel I am looking a little tired before heading off to the gym, but usually this skincare routine wakes up the face and has me looking fresh and ready to head out for my morning workout.

Breathing and Meditation

This step is crucial in my fall morning routine. Just thinking about how things get busy, we’re almost at the end of the year, it’s getting darker and colder, and I am going to have to start thinking about holiday shopping increases my stress levels.

Taking about 5-10 minutes between my skincare routine and getting ready to head out the door to exercise is a great reminder to slow down, take a deep breath, and remind yourself “I got this”.

I am currently using the Headspace app and really love the 5 deep breaths exercise. It is the best way to start my day because I can easily get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the morning, wanting to get as much done as possible before having to start work.

The “5 deep breaths exercise” uses the classic box breathing method to settle the nervous system and help you reconnect. I will then move on to either “The Wake Up”, which is just a short clip from their podcast series, or I will go to the daily meditation and set it for 5-10 minutes, depending on how the morning is going. You can try the breathing exercise and Headspace for 30 days by using this link.

Once my teeth are clean, my skin is glowing and my mind is at ease, it is time to get moving!

Exercise 30-90 minutes

Moving my body is another crucial step in my fall morning routine. Getting outside as part of that exercise is also really important. As the temperatures drop, it is important to be outside to acclimatize my body to the new temperatures, get fresh air and see the natural morning light.

All of these will help you manage stress in the fall, make the fall temperatures feel more comfortable, and give you a natural energy boost to start your work day with a clear mind.

In the summertime it is really easy for my to get our for an hour every morning. The weather is nicer, and the sun is out earlier so I want to be outside for a longer period of time.

In the fall, because so much of this changes, I aim for a range. 30 minutes is my minimum and can be as easy as going for a walk in the morning. Just as long as I am moving for 30 minutes, it is enough to start the day off on the right foot.

I also walk to the gym on the mornings that I go to the gym, so even those 15 minutes is enough outside time to gain the benefits I mentioned before.

I find my goals in the fall also change. I want to continue moving my body, which is where the regular morning walks come from. But I also want to start lifting heavy again. In the summer I still do weightlifting, but it is more about repetitions and high-intensity training to break a good sweat. Whereas in the fall, I really slow down my workouts and focus on building strength.

Be sure to include some form of movement in your fall morning routine. It can be walking, walking to the local pool to swim laps, going to the gym or stepping outside to take a few deep breaths before returning indoors to do your favourite pilates workout. Whatever suits you best and keeps you moving on those cool, autumn mornings.

Eat a Nourishing Breakfast

When I am done moving my body, it is time to eat breakfast. What you eat and when you eat is actually entirely up to you, but it is important to make sure that the first meal of the day is offering you a host of quality nutrients so that you have the right fuel to keep you focused and energized for the rest of the day.

On days when I don’t go to the gym, I actually really like to fast. There are mixed opinions about this, so I suggest doing your due diligence to research it. I have worked in the fitness industry, studied nutrition and have been running personal experiments on myself for years, and I have found that fasting in the fall and winter seems to work for me.

My ancestors were nordic europeans so in the fall and winter they relied on high-fat, nutrient dense foods to sustain the for long periods of time. They also relied on the fat-stores they would have built up to over the summer months to keep them going when meals weren’t as easy to track down.

How I translate that to 2024 is fasting on days when I am not doing any heavy lifting, and then making sure that first meal of the day is rich in healthy fats and proteins. The first meal of the day can happen anytime between 12PM and 2PM, but I also don’t put pressure on myself to fast that long.

On the days when I am at the gym and lifting heavy weight, I make sure to eat within the first hour after training. This is the optimal window to consume enough protein to support optimal muscle recovery. Because I am training for strength in the winter and I am training multiple times per week, it is really important for me to support muscle recovery as best I can.

Breakfast typically involves eggs in one of its many delicious formats and then I may add a sausage, or bacon to bump up the protein content of my breakfast. I will also consume an electrolyte product at this time as well to further support muscle recovery.

Mentally Prepare for the rest of the Day

For the final step of my fall morning routine I life to do final thing to mentally prepare for the rest of the day. This can be doing another meditating activity on Headspace, journaling, just stopping to breathe, or organizing my to-do list for the day.

This final step helps close the part of my morning that is all about me and my healthy habits, and transitioning into the work day, which directs my energy towards others.

Everyone will start their morning’s at different times, but I believe that by starting the day with a gentle-wake up, followed by waking up the senses and self-care, mindfulness, exercise, good food and organization, that you’ll find yourself having a more positive, fulfilled and healthy fall.

GymShark is Having a Major Labor Day Sale. Here are my top picks

It is no secret that GymShark is my favourite athleisure brand, so I am always excited when I see they have a sale going on because their products are already affordable – so this just means I can really stock up. Here are my top picks from GymShark’s Labor Day Sale.

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GymShark Training Oversized Fleece Sweatshirt

Get ready for cooler temperatures with this cozy fleece sweatshirt. This is the upgraded version of one of my all-time favourite sweatshirts from GymShark that I practically live in. The colours on offer are also perfect for fall, from classic black to earthy greens and soft blues.

GymShark Lifting Essentials Graphic Oversized Sweatshirt

Keeping with the cozy theme, this is another sweater for the girlies who love a graphic moment. You can just tell this sweater is ultra soft and will comfortable and easy to throw on before the gym, running errands, or on your next rest day.

GymShark Peekaboo Sports Bra

I have been loving this sports bra since they released it earlier this year. The colour options are perfect, and that little peekaboo means that my boob-sweat girlies have some fresh air passing through to keep the girls cool while you train.

GymShark Flex High Waisted Leggins

I am sad to say goodbye to my favourite training shorts, but it is time for leggings to reign again. These leggings are high-waisted to keep you looking snatched during your workout, out for a fall walk, or running errands with friends.

GymShark Strappy Back Light Support Sportsbra

Strappy back sportsbra are really having a moment. If we are going to be working so hard to build a beautiful back, we might as well show it off, right? This sports bra is perfect for the smaller chested girlies who may not need as much support from their sports bra.

GymShark Training Fleece Joggers

It isn’t fall and cozy weather without fleece joggers. These are an absolute staple in every gym girlie’s fall/winter wardrobe, so stock up on them now while they are on sale so you can stay cozy all autumn long!

GymShark Blur Seamless Leggings

You can really never have too many leggings in the fall. I really like these leggings because they pay homage to the classic GymShark leggings that we all had back in 2017, but they’ve given them a subtle design twist.

GymShark Adapt Camo Seamless Ribbed Leggings

As a Whitney Simmons original fan, I have to give the adapt line a big shoutout in this article. The adapt camo line is everything that Whitney Simmons loves – a great fit, cool styling, and they really show off the booty. The leggings are a great addition to your fall gym wardrobe. With the Labor Day sale, these are on crazy sale from $80 to less than $40! You’ll want to act fast on these ones.

GymShark Back Gains Sports Bra

As a Whitney Simmons original fan, I have to give the adapt line a big shoutout in this article. The adapt camo line is everything that Whitney Simmons loves – a great fit, cool styling, and they really show off the booty. The leggings are a great addition to your fall gym wardrobe. With the Labor Day sale, these are on crazy sale from $80 to less than $40! You’ll want to act fast on these ones.

GymShark Accessories

Once you’ve stocked up on your athleisure favourites, it’s time to update your gym accesories. I have always found it really motivating to refresh my whole gym look in the fall. It acts like a second new years and is the perfect time to inject new energy and inspiration into all aspects of your life.

These are my top GymShark accessories picks from their labor day sale.

Everyday Gymbag (small)

Crew Socks 5 Pack

Seamless Dipped Front Thong

As someone who has been working in the affiliate industry for over 3 years and in marketing for close to 7 years, I know that Labor Day sales are up there with Black Friday/Cyber Monday sales. This is a great time to stock up on essentials and wishlist items before the weather changes.

I hope you’ve enjoyed these recommendations. As always, let me know if you have any favourites from the GymShark sale and leave it in the comments for other readers!

My Experience with Post-Birth Control Syndrome (PBCS)

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Women and femmes are regularly put on hormone birth control to protect us from unwanted pregnancies and, recently, “treat” PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome). Although we are told that birth control is not 100% effective at preventing pregnancy, and that it may put us at a higher risk for blood clots, we are rarely told what might happen when we stop using birth control. In January 2018, I didn’t have the time in my schedule to go to a doctor and renew my birth control prescription, so I stopped taking the pill, cold turkey, after over 7 years on the pill. This blog is the story of how my reacted to that and how I dealt with the drastic, scary, and unpleasant symptoms of post-birth control syndrome (PBCS).

Why I Took Hormonal Birth Control

When I was in high school and had hit puberty, I unfortunately started to develop hormonal acne. This was common in my family and I knew it was coming, but I hated living with it.

There was a lot of embarrassment attached to having acne as a teenager, and as I got into my later teen years and my physical appearance became more important to me, I spent a lot of time looking for ways to treat my hormonal acne.

Additionally, I was in a relationship in my final year of high school and, as many hormonal teenagers do, I was starting to get certain urges. I grew up in a very sex-positive household, so I knew I could ask my mom to make an appointment for me to get on the birth control pill without too much push-back or questions from her.

When I was put on the pill I remember being told that it could cause mood swings, changes to my diet, and changes to my skin. I was also told that it increased the risk of developing blood clots, and wasn’t 100% effective at preventing unwanted pregnancies. So I walked out of that clinic with my prescription, and a natural sense of teenage complacency.

I knew the risks, but for me I just wanted to get on the pill so my skin would clear up, I could stop stressing about being intimate with my high school boyfriend, and maybe event get bigger boobs – which my friends had all said happened to them (alas, this was not a side effect I enjoyed, but I’ve grown out of this mindset, thankfully).

The pill did everything it was supposed to and more. At first, I was on the wrong prescription. My skin cleared up, my periods regulated, but I became an absolute emotional nightmare. I seem to have blacked out during this period, because I don’t remember how bad it was, but my sister and mom are quick to talk about that time period as the time I turned into the devil. My mood completely switched and I was not okay mentally.

So, we went back to the doctor and I was put on a different prescription. I had also done a little more research to understand what type of birth control I needed to be on to really help with my acne.

From about 2013 onwards, I was on yasmin, which has a synthetic form of estrogen that is particularly good at targeting skin issues. In college it was really easy to get these prescriptions renewed at the nurse practitioner, so I was regularly stocked up on birth control and never ran into any issues.

Until that fateful winter in 2018 when I ran out of time.

Coming off the pill

In January 2018, I was embarking on my first New Year as a personal trainer. As you know, the new year is a common time for people to set health goals, and as a personal trainer, we were overwhelmed with requests from new potential clients.

I was working Monday – Friday from 6AM – 9PM, and on weekends I was either out with friends or dog-sitting. There was just no time to get to a clinic to wait for them to take my blood pressure and write me a renewal for a pill I had been taking over 7 years. So I just stopped taking the pill.

At first, I didn’t really notice a difference. I was a little less bloated, but my mood seemed fine and I even got a period that first month. I thought I was in the clear and continue about my business, just making sure I was being careful if I ever brought someone home.

I had about 3 good months where I felt my energy come back, my mood stabilized and I was having fewer mood swings, I felt like my workouts and nutrition choices actually made a difference to my figure, and my libido came back in full force. I felt like a teenage boy – which, in hindsight, should have been a sign of what was actually going on in my body.

I also stopped getting my period. Something that women must be taught at an earlier age is that our menstrual cycle can be considered a vital sign. A healthy woman’s body should go through the menstrual cycle, including the clearing of dead tissue and bleeding that is known as our period. When we don’t get our periods, we should make note of it as a sign that something it not right.

In my case, my body was going through something known as an androgen rebound, which is a common symptom of post-birth control syndrome. Essentially, my body had been surpressing testosterone while I was on the pill. This helped my skin stay clear, but also impacted how I saw the results from my workouts and kept my libido low, to non-existent.

When I came off the pill, I basically opened the floodgates. All that testosterone that should have been freely flowing as part of the natural cycle (our testosterone peaks during ovulation), had been building up and I finally set it free. It came back in full force and so I got my libido back (yay), but I also experience amenorrhea (loss of period) and really bad hormonal acne.

You can see in the image above that the acne was all over my face, but it was really bad around my jaw-line and my neck. From face mapping, we know that acne around the jaw and neck is typically caused by hormonal imbalances. Some women also experience hair growth along their jaw line. I thankfully did not get that, but I often thought about Shania Twain’s lyric “I wish that I could grow a beard, to cover up my spots”.

This was so difficult for me. I was brought right back to high school where I was trying all kinds of facial creams, face washes, treatments, constantly poking at my face and waking up worried that another huge pimple had appeared. I developed the very nasty habit of waking up and immediately feeling around my neck and jaw for new spots.

This is what kicked my research into women’s hormones into high-gear. I needed to figure out what was happening and if there was anything I could do besides getting back on the pill to get my skin glowing again.

Discovering Post-Birth Control Syndrome

I can remember exactly where I was when I listened to the life-changing podcast that finally explained what was happening to my body. I was back in the neighbourhood I grew up in, walking my dog and listening to a podcast. I had been listening to a podcast called “Health Hormones for Women” podcast (now called Wellness Witch) for some time but on episode 46, they had Dr. Jolene Brighten on to talk about “What We’re Not Told About Coming Off the Pill”.

The podcast explained everything to me. How the pill depletes certain vitamins and minerals, why I felt like I had no libido, how it impacted my mental health, and why I was experiencing the myriad of symtoms I was experiencing. And, thankfully, she also spoke about some initial lifestyle changes that we can make to help improve the experience.

The major one was limiting sugar intake and limiting the intake of foods that can lead to inflammation in women. So, true to my personality, I took this to the extreme and tried the ketogenic diet for the first time.

My mom and sister had already been on the diet, but I was always hesitant to try because I didn’t feel it was responsible to be on diets when I was actively working as a personal trainer promoting a balanced “diet” of “everything in moderation”.

So I began my keto journey and although it was difficult at first as the usual symptoms of keto flu and sugar withdrawals came and went, I did notice a difference in my skin.

I used to get really itchy after eating just about anything, but mainly foods high in salt and sugar. So when I was on the keto diet and not eating sugar, and only having salt as a seasoning, all of a sudden I wasn’t getting itchy skin anymore.

I also experienced the mental health benefits of the keto diet, which really helped manage the experience of post-birth control syndrome. I used to live in a constant state of stress and panic and exhaustion from being stressed and panicked all the time. I wasn’t able to focus at work and the quality of my work suffered. On the keto diet, I became laser focused, had a ton of energy and was feeling more balanced in my mood. My skin clearing up through all of this also helped balance my mood.

After 6 months, I got a period again. Then again 3 months after that, and eventually I was getting regular, monthly periods. My skin cleared up and I was feeling much better. There were other tips from the book “Beyond the Pill” that I never got to try, like prenatal supplements, but I felt like I had control over my experience and I was feeling much more informed about women’s hormones, the importance of our cycle, how our hormones impact our nutrient absorption, and how to manage coming off of the pill.

Getting back on the pill

Plot twist – I did get back on the pill, but I want to walk you through why I decided to do this after going through a difficult year with PBCS symptoms.

In March 2019, after over a year of being off of the pill, I accepted an offer to go to Sweden to be an au pair. At this point, I was getting regular facials, has eased off of the keto diet, and was feeling better about my skin, but not completely satisfied. I knew I wanted to go to Sweden and feel confident, so after much contemplation, I made an appointment with my gynaecologist with the intention of getting an IUD so I would never have to worry about finding a way to get my birth control pills in Sweden.

When I got to the appointment, the doctor was amazing. I explained my situation and she said she would be happy to make an appointment for the IUD, but she gave me a very important warning first. Although the IUD is effective for birth control, it will likely make my skin worse because IUDs are primarily progesterone, which doesn’t have the skin-clearing effects of estrogen.

I was not about to go through another skin journey, so I asked for my options and she explained that she can write me a prescription for birth control and we can ask for all 12 months to be prepared for pick-up, with the understanding that 9 of them won’t be covered by insurance. She also mentioned that going on and off the pill really increases the risk of ovarian cancer and blood clots, so I wasn’t to come off of the pill this time unless I was absolutely certain that it would be for good.

So I got back on the pill and my skin cleared up to point that I felt confident enough to have no make-up days, I stopped wasting money on crazy skincare treatments and I generally felt better.

As of this writing, I am still on the birth control pill. I have however had great conversations with my girlfriends and sisters about getting off the pill. I was able to take my experience with PBCS and help them navigate their own journey coming off of the pill.

Where Am I Today with my Birth Control

From their experience, the advice that was most helpful was taking prenatal supplements, as this will fast-track your body’s replenishing of nutrients that the pill made you deficient in. Eating a low inflammatory diet for at least 3 months after coming off of the pill also proved to be helpful. Avoiding things like processed sugar and salty foods, limiting caffeine and alcohol intake, and getting a variety of fruits, vegetables and protein was key to making sure the internal systems were operating at peak performance to help support the hormonal changes that were taking place.

Personally, I live with a constant hesitancy to get off of the pill. Even though I know how to navigate the challenges of PBCS, the experience was so difficult for me that I worry those tools won’t be enough.

I am a single woman, with a human-facing job and an active social life. The thought of going out into the world and feeling low confidence because of my skin is something I really struggle with. So as it stands, I am staying on the pill, but slowly making lifestyle changes that will make coming off of the pill easier.

These changes are:

  • reducing my alcohol intake
  • keeping my bedding clean so my skin is in good health
  • finding a skincare routine that works for my skin type and my budget
  • reducing my processed sugar intake
  • reducing my intake of foods that lead to inflammation in my body (every body is different)
  • limiting my coffee and dairy intake
  • testing prenatal vitamins to figure out which ones I would reliably take every day during the transition period off of the pill

I hope that by making each of these changes gradually, that when I come off of the pill, I will be in the best place possible with my health to make for a smooth transition off of the pill. When that time comes, I’ll be joining Natural Cycles after seeing the success that my sister and friends have had with the app. It’s helped them get off the pill, enjoy intimacy with their partners without the risk of an unplanned pregnancy, and for the women planning pregnancies, helped them plan accordingly.

Post-birth control syndrome is very real and can be very challenging. It is my hope that by sharing my story, you feel like you are seen and heard and understood in your own post-birth control experience. None of this should be taken as medical advice, and is only meant to act as anecdotal evidence of the PBCS experience. If you are concerned about coming off of the pill and having adverse symptoms, then I recommend you speak with your doctor and create a game plan that is unique to you.

Thank you for letting me share this experience with you. It isn’t always easy being a woman, but I truly hope that you can come away from this feeling like you have a path forward to confidently come off of the pill.